 When locals ask, "You're not from round here, are you?', don't panic. Have patience, make time for people and you'll soon find yourself settling into your new community.
Be neighbourly
It might sound obvious but getting to know your neighbours is the best place to start. Invite them over for housewarming drinks or afternoon tea - anything more raucous and you risk starting village life on a bad note. If you're having any building work done on the house or tinkering with boundary fences or hedges, keep up a good dialogue with any neighbours who'll be affected.
Join local committees
Village organisations are always keen for new members and fresh enthusiasm but be careful not to tread on people's toes. Is there any fundraising you can help with? What about voluntary school or church groups? Social exclusion is also a problem in rural areas - young mums, the elderly and people with disabilities often lack access to transport - could you help out in any way?
National organisations
There are numerous national or regional groups with thriving local branches. Many have an educational or charitable purpose but are also a great source of social contact. Well-known examples include the Women's Institute, U3A (University of the Third Age), Rotary Club, Women in Rural Enterprise, the Workers Educational Association and the National Women's Register.
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